Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Spring!


I have been super silent and all I can say is that Spring is upon us! We have been enjoying lots of sunshine days. Everyone is doing a great job with their studies as well. Hero is soaking up knowledge like a sponge with her more unschoolish work load and Serra is flying through her studies. Eden is stepping more and more deeply into reading and Haven is amazing us with her smarts. All in all things are wonderful. Also, they are all mostly much too big for a splash pool.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Where March Finds Us . . .

Hero has always been an Unschooler at heart. She is a child with constant questions of "Why?" and "How?", always thinking of new and better ways to do things . . . she is hands on and inventive and tirelessly clever. I've come to the conclusion that I need to surrender my expectations to her learning style. More than a choice, it is a process, and I am trying to loosen up more and more each day. I have no doubt that she will learn everything she needs to know as she grows, with our support. So no more overwhelming pressure to perform to the tune of the outside set of standards our society has in place for her. She is (for now) (more or less) free to follow the path she chooses. There are certain things I cannot let go of, but I will try to make those things enjoyable and approachable. I have no plans currently to extend this Unschooler's privilege to my other kids who have a less difficult time with structure and strictly bounded learning, but who knows where this will take us. I might find it an irresistibly appealing sort of thing that will encroach on everything. We'll see where we are in a few months time.

I found a handy little toy the other day and couldn't resist it, in an attempt to make the dreaded maths more fun. It's the World Almanac for Kids Puzzler Deck, the math version for ages 7-9. It is great fun and more than a few cards forced me to think twice. Now I want the whole collection.

And a delightful photo from our day. Cooperative Battleship. With dolls. I love it.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

The Beauty of Homeschooling



This is the real beauty of our homeschooling . . . a spring day spent scaling a small mountain with sisters.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Back in the swing.

So we had a bit of an unscheduled break. I came down with a cold near the end of last week, so Thursday and Friday were both pretty much free days, other than a bit of reading. Then we had a friend over Friday and Saturday night and then we took her home and spent Sunday and Monday night at her house! We had a great time with our best friends and then drove back home Tuesday. The kids were up until close to midnight all of those nights and they are still getting caught up on sleep. But it was totally worth it. :)

So today we jumped back into it. I'm noticing that Hero has a really rough time and feels really resistant to lessons on the first day after any sort of break, be it an ordinary weekend or Christmas. I need to figure out a way to ease her (and me) back into it more gracefully, because it makes for a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day of learning if I jump in with both feet (as I tend to do) and she decides to dig her heels in. Other than that little hang-up the day was good.

We did a small study today on how artists use color, reviewing primary and secondary colors and learning about warm and cool colors and how they can make a painting feel. I didn't quite feel up to getting paint out today, but the girls drew some lovely portraits in crayon. They are now displayed prominently and with pride on the refrigerator door. The first one, on the left, is Haven crying her eyes out (literally I think, it's hard to tell). The other two are of me. I am beaming with pride. Seriously.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

"H says 'huh'"

Or in other words, happy Tuesday!

Mondays are always such slow and sluggish days for us. I would like to screw with that pattern though. I would feel better, I think, to start the week off with a bang. Then, if things get crazy, we can ease into the weekend without feeling guilty or having missed out on valuable learning days. In order to transform Monday into what is now Tuesday I am going to have to turn my Sundays into Mondays, which is frankly kind of depressing. I'll think on it.

And in other news! I am a believer in working wherever you are most comfortable, and I try to allow my kids that freedom, but it doesn't always work out. Sometimes being on the floor or on the couch lends itself to wiggles and daydreaming. I'm not anti-daydreaming, but some days it is helpful to just GET the math lesson done in 10 minutes rather than 10 hours. Leads to happier times for us all. So I have been forcing (oooooh, wicked mother) my kids to sit up at the dining table, the miniature kid table, or putting Serra at the desk in her room. It kind of makes a world of difference.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

January through February 2010

Things in homeschool land are going quite well. Of course there are ups and downs, days in which I wonder what I was ever thinking starting this endaevour that will likely carry us through the next 16 years or so when our youngest is finished. But all in all I think that it is good. My kids are learning at their own pace, from what interests them, with minimal pressure . . . and they're doing it together, forging close sibling bonds that will carry them through the rest of their lives. We hope.

Just by way of general updates:

Serra will turn Ten in July. I can hardly wrap my mind around the idea of double digits. She is an avid reader and audiobook listener. I think currently she is listening to Inkdeath and reading Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. She loves fantasy and is writing a guidebook to the world of pixies. She is a remarkable artist and has done some really beautiful impressionist paintings. Math is the thorn in her side but she does incredibly well with it and is moving right along on schedule. History for her is covered through American Girl novels and companion books and Little House on the Prairie stories. We found The Prairie Girl's Guide to Life at the library and she is really enjoying it. We may have to buy it! She is always getting on my case to make her or buy her a prairie style dress. Too bad I can't sew, but we'll find her something soon. Here she is enjoying a winter day with her bff (with whom she is forming a band).

Dear Hero has recently turned Eight. She got her ears pierced for the occasion and did a grand job being brave and all that. She was less squeamish than me! She is finally sinking into and becoming comfortable with reading. She isn't what I would call an avid reader (yet) but she does, I think, appreciate the skill finally. She read all three easy readers I checked out for her in one night this week! I was thinking they would take her a week to work through, so this is great progress. She is quite the whiz at math; I think she is just a numbers oriented person, very much into patterns and rhythm. She'll often hum her way through a page of math problems, to which I say "Whatever works" and also "Thank goodness she is homeschooled". She has a very analytical mind and is full of questions, and therefor she is always learning. She is an unschooler at heart, and while I cannot fully go there because of my own anxieties I do try to let her work through things on her own as much as possible.

Eden just turned Six and is just starting to become more academically minded. She can add and subtract and can read some words with guidance, though she hasn't got all of the letter sounds committed to memory fully yet. It is so neat to see a person learning the code. She loves the one on one time of school more than anything else I think, and I love it too. As the number three kid and with her easy going and generous personality she often seems to get overlooked, and sometimes even trodden on I think. It is good to have that time with her, snuggled upclose and seeing how her mind works.

Then There's Haven, the tumbly little bumbly light of our lives. Sort of. She is entering that difficult stage, which can be so fun, and I more and more frequently hear things like "Haven is ruining my life and wrecking my stuff!" But hey, it is way too late to return her, so we'll deal.




We vacationed recently and saw some wonderful things. We visited the Rio Grande Zoo and Aquarium, The New Mexico Museum of Space History,and Carlsbad Caverns.

All in all much fun was had and many miles were logged. Now we're just trying to get back into the swing of things at home.